Mission Statement

The SF CITADEL's mission is to provide a safe space for alternative lifestyles, cultural and leather events We also provide other resources to individuals, associations and communities who identify with having different ways of expressing their proclivities. We want to create a safe place to meet, explore and share enjoyment, happiness, laughter and pleasure within these communities locally and nationally.


We are open to all human players. We warmly welcome everyone regardless of race, creed, color, sexual orientation or gender identification. This is a place for all individuals to gather with other like-minded individuals to explore alternative aspect of their identities. We strive to provide a safe space and will continue to do the best that we can to create, promote and enforce safety and freedom to personal expression.

Consent Matters

For consent issues or to apply to our consent commitee, please contact us at [email protected]

As soon as we finish updating our policies, they will be added to our website.

Parties and Events

The SF Citadel works tirelessly to bring educational, interesting and fun-filled events to the San Francisco Bay Area community.

For a full listing of all events being held at the Citadel, please check out our calendar.

Most of our specialty events are held once per quarter unless otherwise specified, often 4 times/year with varying themes for each event. These types of specialty events are usually, but not always, geared towards specific kink segments.


What our patrons are saying

Awesome play space for any person, size, shape, color, age or gender. You can get lost watching all the fun that goes on or just participate and give a show. If you are feeling frisky and want to be in a safe, fun flirty place. This is the joint for you!

Anonymous - May 24, 2017